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· 1:1 Depth Work · 10 Weeks · Application-Based ·

Break through
what holds you back

Designed for women at a critical turning point — who know the change is irreversible, but haven't found their path yet.

· You are not alone on the journey toward yourself ·

Designed for her

A persistent inner misalignment

You've been pushing hard for a long time, but there's a persistent inner misalignment you can't name

The harder you push, the more exhausted you get

You've lived the push-harder → exhaust → seek-more-outside cycle, and you're starting to wonder if this is just how it goes forever

Surface-level tools, nothing moves at the root

You've done the self-exploration, used many tools, read many books — all circling the surface. Nothing's moved at the root

An inner reorientation

You're in a transition — professional, identity, intimate relationships — or maybe just a deep inner reorientation

You want to be seen, not pushed

You want a space where you can be truly seen and accompanied — not given answers, not pushed forward

Before
After

After 10 weeks, you will have

A clear inner direction

No longer coming from others' suggestions or AI-generated optimal solutions. What you truly want, what price you're unwilling to pay, and how to hold both clearly — you'll have your own judgment.

A stable inner core of agency

When external conditions shift rapidly, when others question your choices, you have an unmovable inner anchor. This doesn't mean you're no longer affected — but you'll find the speed of returning to your stable baseline keeps increasing.

Real understanding of your own patterns

Understanding why you think, react, and choose the way you do. When you can deeply understand your seemingly uncontrollable side, you truly gain the power of choice.

An inner toolkit that stays with you

After 10 weeks, the space you've built for yourself doesn't disappear. All the tools will be yours to use. Whenever you feel inner entropy increasing, you can return and continue going deeper.

· Solution ·

Settling into yourself, for the first time

A clear inner direction

No longer coming from others' suggestions or AI-generated optimal solutions. What you truly want, what price you're unwilling to pay, and how to hold both clearly — you'll have your own judgment.

A stable inner core of agency

When external conditions shift rapidly, when others question your choices, you have an unmovable inner anchor. This doesn't mean you're no longer affected — but you'll find the speed of returning to your stable baseline keeps increasing.

Real understanding of your own patterns

Understanding why you think, react, and choose the way you do. When you can deeply understand your seemingly uncontrollable side, you truly gain the power of choice.

An inner toolkit that stays with you

After 10 weeks, the space you've built for yourself doesn't disappear. All the tools will be yours to use. Whenever you feel inner entropy increasing, you can return and continue going deeper.

· What they experienced ·

The moment of finally recognizing yourself

"That feeling of 100% certainty — completely luminous inside, no doubt at all. As someone who has spent years in self-development, experienced long-term therapy and life coaching, Jian's program still opened something new. It truly achieved simplicity from complexity — efficient and precise."

Mio · Consultant · Beijing

"Jian is an extraordinarily patient listener. She always cuts to the core in just a few words. Every session left me with one or two things that moved me — things I couldn't see in my own reflection journals. When I sit quietly and recall how I was guided, I feel grateful."

Weiwen · Design Director · Melbourne

"Whenever I hit a wall, Jian could wake me up with just a few words. Through the meditation practices, my emotions slowly steadied from the spiral they'd been in. Even though the program is over now, when my emotions cycle back, I can still use the system Jian helped me build to find my way through. Within this process, I found a version of myself I'd never seen before."

Yang · Director · London

"This program changed how I see myself and helped me understand what genuine agency actually means."

Sarah · Creative Director · Shanghai

"Through these 10 weeks of accompaniment, I finally had the courage to make the change I'd wanted for a long time."

Li · Independent Designer · Hangzhou

"What moved me most was the feeling of being truly seen. Not judged — understood and held."

Monica · Brand Consultant · Singapore

Interlude

"You have spent many years becoming who you were expected to become. These 10 weeks belong entirely to your authentic self."

This program is not a course. It's closer to a structured journey alongside someone.

Every session begins from where you actually are — no predetermined "should." You bring your real experience. Together we see it, and the next step becomes increasingly clear through that process.

The ten stages aren't a rigid sequence — just a backbone for exploration distilled from my own experience. Each stage answers a question you may not yet dare face directly.

· 3 Phases · 10 Core Breakthroughs ·

A structured path — the backbone to lean on when lost

# Theme Core Question
01 Intro Session Slow down. See clearly where you are right now.
02 The Foundation: Mindset & Narrative How many of your "musts" actually need to factor into your decisions?
03 Who I Am · The Core When all identity falls away — what remains.
04 Who I Am · The Surface How many layers stand between you and your real self.
05 Who I Am · The Shadow What you dislike most is often where the most wisdom lives.
06 First Integration: Seeing & Accepting You have always been whole. Let's integrate what has scattered.
07 Where I Want to Go · Clarifying Direction Without any pressure — what do you actually want.
08 Identity Shift · Rebuilding Now, see through her eyes.
09 Second Integration: From Vision to Action Change means letting some old things go. Are you ready?
10 How to Get There · Outcome-Oriented The things so small they seem insignificant — that change everything.
· Your Investment ·

What you take away is more than 10 conversations

10 weeks of depth accompaniment · €1,199

1:1 Shift Program

€1,199
Application-based · Discovery call first · Payment on confirmation · Rate based on current exchange
  • 10 × 1:1 depth sessions (55 min each, via Google Meet or Zoom)
  • Agency Evolution System v4.0 (Notion system, currently on the 4th iteration)
  • Major Life Events Timeline template (Miro, for mapping your life arc)
  • Mind Trick Practices
  • Feminine Archetype Guide
  • Masculine Archetype Guide
  • Attachment Style Guide
  • 1–4 hours of thematic practice after each session (written + experiential)
  • Text support between sessions (WhatsApp or email, for significant moments)
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Email: [email protected]

Discovery call first · Payment after confirmed fit (PayPal · bank transfer)

Who This Program Is For

For you

This is for you, if ——

You've been pushing hard for a long time, but there's a persistent inner misalignment you can't name

You've been through the push-exhaust-push cycle and are starting to wonder if this is really the only way

You have experience with self-exploration but feel like despite all the tools, nothing fundamental has moved

You're in a transition — in career, identity, relationships, or a deeper inner reorientation

You want a space where you can be truly seen and think alongside someone — not be pushed

Not for you

This is not for you, if ——

What you need is an immediate solution, or a shortcut that monetizes right away

You haven't prepared to genuinely invest in each weekly session and the work afterward

You want to be told "what to do" rather than finding answers that belong to you

You are currently in an acute mental health crisis and need professional psychological support

· You might be wondering ·

Common Questions

Therapy typically addresses past trauma and symptoms — the process tends to be slower. This program works with identity structure — how you operate now, and how to choose more consciously. Inner change and the external world take effect at the same time. Both can run simultaneously, but they serve different purposes. Even though I have a neuromedical background, what truly transformed me came from something else entirely.
One 55-minute session per week, plus 1–4 hours of thematic practice afterward. The practice isn't homework — it's a way of bringing what emerged in session into actual life. How deeply you engage is up to you.
The Intro Session is our first real conversation. We get to know each other. I assess whether this program genuinely fits where you are right now; you assess whether you want to work this way. Only when both sides confirm the fit do you pay the remaining balance.
This rarely happens, because the Intro Session does thorough screening. But if at any point you feel this isn't what you need right now, we can have an honest conversation — including whether to pause.
Please submit the application form. The number of concurrent programs I run is limited, depending on my current energy capacity and depth of dialogue. This is not a scalable product — the limited spots are themselves part of quality assurance.
At most 4–6 active programs run simultaneously, depending on my energy capacity. This is not a scalable product — it's genuine accompaniment. The limited spots are part of how quality is maintained.
About Jian

Hey, I'm Jian — inner systems designer & Coach.

I'm dedicated to helping high-achieving women restore nervous system stability, reclaim their original vitality, and let their authentic self fully emerge.

I was once deeply perfectionistic — medical training at Fudan, an international outlook, working without stopping. By 29, I realized I had drifted far from the life I actually wanted. After moving to Europe, I went through burnout and a deeper awakening. I spent three years reintegrating myself in Berlin — neuroscience, psychology, meditation, somatic work — slowly healing and finding my life's purpose.

In my most lost moments, I asked myself again and again: "This brief and precious life — how do I actually want to live it?" Everything I do now is a map I drew for you after finding my own way out. You are already enough. This time, you can truly live for yourself.

Medicine Neuroscience Jungian Psychology Somatic Work Berlin · East-West
· Applications now open ·

If you're already here

No need to have all the reasons figured out. You only need the willingness to slow down first, and go deeper.

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On agency, somatic work, and identity transformation — real samples and reflections